After being a key cast member since the very first episode of The Real Housewives of Durban, reality TV star Nonku Williams has announced her exit from the show.
In a heartfelt message shared on her social media, Nonku explained her decision to step away—not just from the series, but also from the much-anticipated reunion episode.
She revealed that seeing herself on screen had become a difficult and emotional experience, causing her to reflect deeply on her identity and personal values. While she took responsibility for her part in the drama, she also suggested that the show’s format played a role in fueling the tension
"The woman I see on screen is someone I no longer recognize or respect. While I accept my part in creating this narrative, I’ve also been shaped by the show’s environment. The constant push for drama, the conflict between women, the gossip, and the negativity—it's a toxic cycle that has taken a toll on me."
"I want to create real change and leave a positive impact on the world—but this show, with its toxic patterns, isn’t the right platform for that."
"I'm choosing to be a role model—for my children and for anyone who may be watching. I'm putting my well-being first, choosing self-care, and committing to living authentically in line with my values."
She expressed hope that her decision will inspire others.
"I hope my journey becomes a reminder of the strength in self-awareness, the bravery to walk away, and the possibility of redemption."